Sex & marriage

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"I can understand 'no sex before marriage', but that's ridiculous!" she exclaimed.  And I had to agree.  She was talking about a couple who got married 6 months after knowing each other.  The guy is much younger than her and there are problems in the marriage.  She is regretful now, and said, they are Christian, so they wanted to do the right thing and not have sex before marriage.  But now she realises they got married to have sex.  

I believe that many Christians may fall into this trap.  I thank God for that comment because I know that it is a trap that I too could fall into, and having heard it so blatantly, from the horse's mouth, has made it clear to me the grave danger of sexual attraction without conviction that you actually like the person for who he is.  This part is the most important part, so why is it so rare to meet someone we actually genuinely like?

I think it is time for me to go, to pack up my things, sell a few belongings, and head off to a place of potential.  But potential for what?  Adventure?  Love?  Fun?  A good experience?  All of the above, and more.  Where will I find this?  Do I need to travel to have them?

How do you meet someone you genuinely like?  As a person, regardless of their current status.  Where will I meet the person I'll like, be interested in, share things with, etc?  And when?  I have not met him yet.  I thought, for a short moment in time, I had.  But he was simply a likable guy.  I was not the only one who thought so.  

Or perhaps I am not seeing through the veneer of the men that are in my life now, and I am not giving them a chance.  Would I not "just know" though?  As so many women claim?  "I just knew", they often say, when they had met the right one, the one they married.  And as much as they just knew he was right, I always seem to "know" he's wrong.  

I guess I just haven't met you yet! (Michael Bubble)


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