What you believe

-
Do you believe that people add and subtract to your life, 
and on the basis of that you either keep them or let them go?
If that is so, then love is conditional.  

Do you believe that you choose your friends in such a way
that they can become your allies, true witnesses, investors in your ideas, 
or else they are not worth their keep?
If so, are you a friend to them?

Do you believe when something ends, that there is a change, 
or do you keep the things you liked in the first place, 
and dump the rest along with any commitment?
If so, have you really changed?  

We have choices to make.  God shows us the way. 
We can turn a blind eye, or we can go His way. 
What's easiest is usually wrong, and what's right hard. 
The one leads us to joy, the other astray. 

Comments

Anonymous said…
I believe that people may be negative on you and you may not be aware of it, until you stop spending time with them. Some people have negative energy that they carry and almost invest in others around them. They don't notice it but once you leave them, you feel somehow lighter. This is cos they say negative things all the time, which affects you.
Sometimes you don't even notice that someone does this to you until someone you know points it out or you actually think about why you might be feeling low on a paticular day.
These are not good people to be around. Yes, it is perhaps possible to try and change their thought pattern but sometimes those are so entrenched it takes months or even years to change them.
I just believe we can choose who we have as friends or partners and why choose people who reflect their negative energy onto you? We can't choose family and have to mentally prepare for them everytime we talk to them. This is just stress and that is never good.
I choose positive and fun people where I can and try and uplift those that I can't but it is draining.
I also don't read newspapers and avoid watching the news! :)
March 5, 2010 at 12:59 AM
Post a Comment

Popular posts from this blog

The Farmer And His Sons

-
Taken from Headway's Intermediate Student's Book: The Farmer And His Sons There was once an old, dying farmer who had worked hard in his vineyard all his life.  Before he died he wanted to teach his three sons how to be good farmers.  So he called them to his bedside and said, 'My boys, I have an important secret to tell you: there is a great treasure buried in the vineyard.  Promise me that you will look for it when I am dead.' The sons gave their promise and as soon as their father had died they began looking for the treasure.  They worked very hard in the hot sun and while they were working they thought about what their father had said.  They pictured boxes of cold coins, diamond necklaces, and other such things.  Soon they had dug up every inch of the vineyard but they found not a single penny.  They were very upset because they felt that all their hard work had been for nothing.   However, a few months later the grapes started to appear on the vines.  Their grapes ...
Read more

Speech technique No.2 - the Unifying Metaphor

-
The Unifying Metaphor: As opposed to a simile which compares two objects using a specific linguistic form, eg. the man was as brave as a lion, a metaphor compares two objects by equating the one with the other, eg. he was a brave lion.   Literally the man was not a lion, but figuratively he was.   This figure of speech is used in literary works of all kinds, including poems and news articles. The Unifying Metaphor aims to unify people.   An example of an American metaphor is the Camel man.   He is healthy, strong and tanned, and he can survive in the wild bushveld with merely a pocketknife and a piece of string.   He drives a 4x4, and he works hard all day.   This is the image of the Camel man – please correct me if I’m wrong.   The logic and truth behind this image may elude us, but what unifies us is what Elgin (1980: p. 227) calls the consensus perception . As a unity, we have reached consensus about the perception of the Camel man.   The theory reminds of the Jung’s colle...
Read more

South Africa's languages

-
Image
South Africa's 11 official languages: South Africa has eleven official languages. In alphabetical order they are: Afrikaans, English, Ndebele, Northern Sotho (now more commonly known as Pedi), Sotho, Swazi, Tsonga, Tswana, Venda, Xhosa and isiZulu.  There are two main groups of the Bantu languages, the Nguni group and the Sotho group. The Nguni languages include Xhosa, Zulu, Swazi and Ndebele. The Sotho group includes Sesotho, Northern Sotho (Pedi/Sepedi) and Tswana.  Here are some greetings in the different languages: (go to   www.travelground.com/blog/greetings-11-official-languages Afrikaans: Hoe gaan dit met jou? English: How are you? isiNdebele: Unjani? Sepedi: Le Kae? Sesotho: O Kae?  siSwati: Unjani? Xitsonga: Ku njhani? Setswana: O tsogile jang? Tshivenda: Vho vuwa hani?  isiXhosa: Unjani? isiZula: Unjani? In order for you to know where these languages are spoken in South Africa, here is firstly a map of the pro...
Read more